"When a man marries he has fulfilled half of the religion; so let him fear ALLAH regarding the remaining half". ~ Prophet Muhammad (s.a.w) ~
Assalamualaikum..
MARRIAGE/KAHWIN? Agak ehh, kenapa la den tiba-tiba nk buat entry pasal khwin ye? Erm apo x ehh 2-3 menjak ni, den asyik dapek yo mjlis undangan kawin dhagi kawan den, rmai betul ye yang nk tamatkn zaman bujang dorang.
Apo pn den ucap tahniah la yo. Kahwin campur ermm agak menarik topik ni untuk dibincangkan, lagi-lagi ianya sudah berlaku didalam keluarga serta saudara mara den.
Kahwin pado den salah satu faktor mendekatkan hubungan antara dua pihak bahkan antara kaum. 'Kahwin campur' (interracial marriage) @ kahwin rentas kaum adlah kahwin antara pasangan yang brbezo kaum, sperti kahwin antara melayu dgn cina, melayu dgn india atau selainnya.
Dalam konteks negara seperti Malaysia, den berpendapat kito amat wajar menggalakkan perkahwinan yang seperti ini. Ini kerana ia boleh mendekatkan antara kaum dalam negara ini. De suko mengambil kata-kata ~Malcolm X ~ dalam bukunya " The Autobiography of Malcolm X".
“I believe in recognizing every human being as a human being--neither white, black, brown, or red; and when you are dealing with humanity as a family there's no question of integration or intermarriage. It's just one human being marrying another human being or one human being living around and with another human being.”
Di dalam al-quran, ALLAH bersabda:
يَا أَيُّهَا النَّاسُ إِنَّا خَلَقْنَاكُم مِّن ذَكَرٍ وَأُنثَى وَجَعَلْنَاكُمْ شُعُوبًا وَقَبَائِلَ لِتَعَارَفُوا إِنَّ أَكْرَمَكُمْ عِندَ اللَّهِ أَتْقَاكُمْ إِنَّ اللَّهَ عَلِيمٌ خَبِيرٌ
O mankind, indeed We have created you from male and female and made you peoples and tribes that you may know one another. Indeed, the most noble of you in the sight of Allah is the most righteous of you. Indeed, Allah is Knowing and Acquainted. (Al-Hujurat: 13).
Wahai manusia! Sesungguhnya Kami telah menciptakan kamu dari lelaki dan perempuan, dan Kami telah menjadikan kamu berbagai bangsa dan bersuku puak, supaya kamu berkenal-kenalan. Sesungguhnya semulia-mulia kamu di sisi Allah ialah orang yang paling bertaqwa di antara kamu. Sesungguhnya Allah Maha Mengetahui, lagi Maha mendalam pengetahuanNya. (Surah al-Hujurat: 13).
Allah clearly encourages us to knowing one another as stated in the verse. One of the ways of knowing other people and races is marriage.
Also, Prophet Mohammed (PBUH) Married to different women from different races and tribes and religions. Maria (RA) was Coptic (Native Egyptian) and she was Christian (Converted to Islam later), Safia (RA) was Jewish from Israelites (Also converted to Islam).
As long as Allah encourages knowing other races and Mohammed (PBUH) married to another races, then it is something actually not only allowed but also recommended for Muslims.
Jadi ianya tidak dilarang bahkan digalakkan di dlam islam, tetapi harus diingat kan perkhawinan campur lebih memerlukan pemahaman yg tinggi bagi kito orang muslim. Islam, akhlak, sikap & teladan harus dijaga dan dijadikn contoh pada pasangan kito.
Memakso seorang cina menjadi ‘melayu’ atau melayu menjadi ‘cina’ selepas perkahwinan adalah tindakan yang salah.
Dengan persefahaman yang tinggi antara dua belah pihak, den yakin perkhwinan campur yg dimetrai akan kekal buat selamanya insyaALLAH.
"Marry the person you know can uplift you morally and who will always remain you that ALLAH is sufficient for you in times of trails."
Assalamualaikum..
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